Am I bad?

Today it feels like I’ve been reprimanding and fighting with my toddler the whole day!! Mommy bunny is super annoyed… And feeling soo guilty about it. I think when you really love your children, you feel very guilty when you realise they are annoying you…

After play school, The Prince INSISTED (insisted!!!) on watching some story with a name I couldn’t understand (something about a ‘tannie’ monster/rhinoceros). After about half an hour of moaning about the ‘aunty/tannie rhinoceros story’ (?!) he started accepting other stories, which I then had to change at least ten times.

Then The Prince wanted to bake cupcakes and I told him we didn’t have the ingredients. He continued asking for cupcakes, stating he was very hungry (but didn’t want anything else) for about half an hour.

Next he wanted to paint and insisted mommy paint with him. I really really didn’t feel like painting. And we had to build puzzles, and I really didn’t feel like building puzzles.

Later he broke a glass, accidentally, then laughed about it. Sigh. I really felt like screaming. Today I was so annoyed.

I guess what I want to know is… Is it okay to feel annoyed by your kids sometimes? Please tell me I’m not alone. Just writing this makes me feel so terribly guilty. I always fear that when I write something negative about my kids that God will take them away from me as punishment. Lord, have mercy on me – and grant me all the patience I need to be a good mother.

My sweet sweet Prince...
My sweet sweet Prince…

I am important

The mommy bunny has been feeling strangely at peace with where she is at now in her life. I’m at peace with ‘just’ being with the kids – playing tractors, building blocks, playing dress-up, dancing, watching Sleeping Beauty three times a day, playing figurines, walking in the garden, handing out popcorn and juices, making sandwiches, cleaning the house and clothes and children and bums – the whole day long – everyday. This phase is going to pass one day and my children will never be this ‘in love’ with me again.

I also realised something important about myself this morning that helps me with this stay-at-home mom journey and that all moms should remember: no one on this earth loves my son more than I do. I am the one person in this world that loves my daughter the most. That makes me a pretty important person.

Love,
The mommy bunny

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A New Day

I had such a lovely afternoon yesterday with the kids and just being what I am, that I am afraid that today could never be as good or as fairly easy as yesterday…  I think my ‘secret’ for yesterday was to keep it light: after The Prince pulled a whole bush of newly planted flowers from my garden on Wednesday, I was so upset with him I kept saying to him ‘NO NO NO!! NO NO NO NO NO!!’ There was so much confusion on his face and he just kept saying: ‘But I love flowers mommy!’ ‘NO NO NO NO NO!Flowers broken!’ ‘But I love flowers mommy!’.

That night in bed my heart just broke thinking of his face and words. I decided right there that I had to be more patient with the kids – I wanted them to have good memories of mommy being at home with them. And I jut realised again what a privilege it was to spend my days with my children. I somehow got peace in my heart that home with my kids is where I must be – and I will be trying my best to keep it light and full of love at home.

It helps when I have cleaned up the house before The Prince comes home in the afternoons. I think my recipe for now is a more or less clean house before The Prince comes home, and a light and thankful heart for being with my children… to not take everything so seriously. Tomorrow this recipe might not work for me anymore, but I take it one step at  a time, and for now, I’m head above water without too much of a paddle.

Love

The Mommy Bunny

I’m still here!

Mommy bunny is most definitely still here! I have just been going through a difficult ‘patch’ – it’s been a combination of being ill, feeling depressed and the kids keeping me very, very busy!

Today I am feeling lighter… I think it might be the weather, or the fact that I saw some very good friends yesterday. People are definitely an antidote to my Depression. That and sunlight.

I hope to be more blog-active again from now on – I have my home computer set up on the dining room table, which often doesn’t work, as it gets taken over by the kids.

The Prince is sleeping on the couch –  I am very skeptical and suspecting the worst (!) – he never sleeps in the afternoon! Hope this is not the beginning of some illness…

Hope and light

Mommy Bunny

PS; I feel like tackling some kind of project…

Looking for the secret door to lead them to the Chronicles of Narnia (this is how a friend described this photo) :-)
Looking for the secret door to lead them to the Chronicles of Narnia (this is how a friend described this photo) 🙂

Day two

Day two of ten is going well! We had a wonderful play date with The Twins this morning, then lunch at daddy’s office and back home, to my absolute amazement and after yesterday’s failed attempt at arts and crafts, The Prince ASKED ME if we could make a paper plate cat! Photos below.

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Here we go

Today is the first day of two weeks that The Prince’s school will be closed. This morning went well – we went to a farm with a great play area, but this afternoon is something else… The Prince just refused to do the arts and crafts activity I planned for the day. I even have Mozart playing in the back. I showed him how to make a butterfly from a toilet roll. No interest.

My mommy heart needs to stay strong.
And light.

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